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Conquering Anxiety Through Mindfulness

Posted on: March 15th, 2019 by positiveoutlookcounseling No Comments

By Jasmine Gonzalez, M.S., NCC, LPC-Intern

“It is in the uncomfortable places where we grow.” I can still hear the voice of my yoga instructor and one of my dearest friends echoing throughout the room one evening during class. I remember thinking to myself:  In such a cerebral world, where our thoughts wander aimlessly back and forth from the sorrows of the past to the worries of the future, what in the WORLD could be more uncomfortable than remaining in the present moment?

How can mindfulness help with anxiety?

Anxiety disorders are one of the most common disorders diagnosed in the United States roughly affecting 40 million adults in the U.S. Anxiety results from natural responses, but like all things, it can become debilitating in excess.

So, what is mindfulness and how can it help? In short, mindfulness is the act of being fully engaged in the present moment. Leading expert in the field Dr. Jon Kabat-Zinn is credited with introducing mindfulness into the mainstream and founded the world-renowned Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction clinic at the University of Massachusetts Medical School. Dr. Kabat-Zinn describes mindfulness as “awareness that arises through paying attention, on purpose, in the present moment, non-judgmentally, in the service of self-understanding and wisdom.”

Utilizing mindful practices as tools can help you to become more aware of the present moment and can allow you to access the resources within yourself that you carry with your every day in order to overcome anxiety. The goal of mindful practice is not to change your situation, because we do not have control over that. However, you can begin to change your response to the situations that occur within your life.

One avenue that complements mindful practices is the use of premium CBD flower. This natural supplement, derived from organic sources, aligns seamlessly with the mindful approach by promoting relaxation and easing tension. Just as mindfulness helps individuals tap into their internal resources, CBD flower can enhance this process by providing a calming effect, enabling a deeper focus on the present.

Some might find cbd vape liquid to be more convenient for their needs, as it provides a quick and discreet way to manage anxiety in daily life. The versatility of CBD products allows individuals to tailor their approach to anxiety management, offering options that suit their preferences and lifestyles. Ultimately, the synergy between mindfulness and CBD products, whether through premium CBD flower or CBD vape liquid, opens up a world of possibilities for those looking to find the ideal path towards anxiety relief.

Incorporating this supplement into mindful practices may create a synergistic effect, allowing individuals to access a state of heightened awareness and tranquility, thereby empowering them to manage anxiety with a more composed and centered mindset. It represents a harmonious blend of natural approaches, emphasizing the importance of holistic well-being in the pursuit of mental and emotional balance.

The Science Behind Mindfulness

Evidenced-based credibility within the field of mindfulness has become rapidly accepted by healthcare professionals world-wide. Countless studies show a relationship between mindful practices and the improvement of pre-frontal nodes in the brain responsible for regulating behavior and decision-making processes. Firm research has also indicated that those undergoing mindful-based cognitive therapy showed a reduced rate of depression by 50%. Most profoundly, researchers studying the FOXO gene discovered cell alterations and an improvement in the expression of the gene of those undergoing a mindful-based therapy program. FOXO is the key regulator of stress resistance, metabolism, and aging. In other words, mindful interventions can not only help you relax, but could also help to reverse the damage caused by chronic stress.

Being Mindful in a Chaotic World

If we are being totally honest, it’s safe to say that our lives are consumed by chaos every day. Mindfulness can be incorporated into your life as a simple practice that can be accessed anytime and anywhere you go. As long as you can breathe, you can practice mindfulness. We can all breathe! As you practice, you will become less anxious and more resilient. Although mindful practices, such as meditation, have been used for thousands of years for spiritual purposes, the modern-day incorporation of mindfulness in therapy is not a spiritual practice. It is not associated with mysticism or any kind of religious practice. Mindfulness can be extremely powerful in creating a link between the body and one’s state of mind. It is about observing your thoughts and feelings and how they are inevitably connected to the creation of anxiety and stress.

Getting Started

Every single aspect of your life can be used as an opportunity to cultivate mindfulness finding moments to slow down the hustle and bustle of your day. Here’s an easy way to begin practicing:

Mindful Seeing

The only requirement for this exercise is that you have a readily available window for viewing purposes. Moreover, some people may not feel totally comfortable closing their eyes to meditate. Mindful seeing gives you the opportunity to experience your visual senses as you meditate. You can start by doing this exercise for 5 minutes.

                Step 1: Find yourself a window with a view. Maybe at home or even at the office.

Step 2: Begin to observe what you are seeing. Just observe, free of judgement so that you are simply noticing your surroundings. You may notice different objects, colors, or even textures in your view.

Step 3: Begin to pay attention to your surroundings almost as if you are a stranger to this environment and it is the very first time you are experiencing what you see. Take notice of anything that moves with the wind, the cars driving by, birds flying, or people walking.

Step 4: Here we become a close observer of what we see. We are not judging what we see, simply noticing and observing. Try not to criticize anything you see, but rather the goal is to generate awareness for your surroundings.

Step 5: Becoming distracted is completely normal. Any time you notice you begin to wander away from your observations, gently reroute your attention to the view in front of you. Redirect yourself in a non-judgmental way knowing that each time your attention may stray from you, you can always come right back into your visual observations.

Mindfulness is great tool to help manage and control strong emotions that may lead to anxiety. It has been a tool used for over 3,000 years spanning different cultures and generations. By using our imaginations, and a little creativity, it is a tool that we can harness almost anywhere. As each day goes by that we begin living in the present, we may experience the joy and happiness that can unfold in each moment as we begin to soothe our way through our anxieties. If you find yourself suffering from anxiety, you’re not alone. And as the great Zen master Thich Nhat Hanh said, “Smile, breathe, and go slowly.”

Wishing you all the best and happy mindful practicing,

Jas

Heading to Therapy for the First Time? Commonly Asked Questions Answered

Posted on: November 16th, 2017 by positiveoutlookcounseling No Comments

Maybe your marriage isn’t quite where you feel like it should be. Perhaps you are struggling with a new transition in your life. Or it could be that you are dealing with depression or anxiety.

Regardless of the specifics, counseling can beneficial for a number of things you are going through. You will be more at ease coming in for the first time if you know what to expect.

Here are 5 commonly asked questions for people coming in for their first session at Positive Outlook Counseling and the answers:

1. Do you take my insurance and if not, how much is it?

  • This question is easily the most asked. At Positive Outlook Counseling, we have decided to be an out-of-network provider, in order for you to remain in control of your wellness process and to keep your confidentiality safe.  All insurance companies require a diagnosis (this becomes part of your PERMANENT health record and can hinder you getting employment or health insurance or any government job) and may limit your therapy to a certain time period or amount of sessions.  We feel that you are unique and don’t feel that everyone needs a diagnosis that will be placed in your permanent medical records.
  • As for how much it is, per session, it ranges based on therapist. Each therapist is unique in their style and how they run therapy. For our therapists, the rates range from $90-$175 per session. We have both interns and fully licensed therapists at our practice.

2. What are the therapists’ availabilities and their specialties?

  • The therapists make their own schedules here, therefore each therapist’s schedule is different. None of our therapists work on the weekends, so keep that in mind when trying to schedule. The best way to find out the therapist’s schedule is to pick one and either call for their availability or check online. The receptionist at the front desk can also match you up with someone if that is easier for you!
  • Each therapist’s specialties can be found on our website, under About Us. You will see each therapist and their specialty. You can also click the therapist’s name and read a bio they have written to get a better feel for their style of therapy and if you are a good match!

3. Now I have an appointment, do I need to do anything before I come in? What about when I come in?

  • Yes! To save time once you get here, we ask all clients to create an online profile through the therapy appointment system. You will also receive a welcome letter email with instructions on how to create your profile. This online profile will let you schedule your appointment online and allows you to write your own bio! The bio allows the therapist to get a better idea for what is bringing you in and how best to help you.
  • Once you get here, you will need to fill out consent forms and pay. Never hesitate to ask questions while you are filling this out if you have any!

4. What do I expect during the first session? How long does a session last? What do we talk about?

  • Each therapist is a bit unique in how they run their first session, but ultimately, they want to get to know you and what is bringing you in. Many therapists will want to know what has prompted you to seek out therapy, your personal history, current situation, and current symptoms.
  • Sessions are a “therapeutic hour” meaning they last 45-50 minutes.
  • Therapy is usually seen as a team effort, try to be prepared to talk about what is going on.
  • A couple of tips for what you could be doing with your therapist to make the most out of your session:
  • Be open: we are trained to ask the right questions, but we can only work with what you are willing to provide, and it helps us if you can be open and honest.
  • Be prepared: before you come in, try to think about what the issue is and how to describe it. Some people write it down, make lists, etc.
  • Ask questions: the more you understand the counseling experience, the more you can get out of it and the more comfortable you will be. If you are confused at any point or would like to know more about something your therapist says, ask!
  • Remember that therapy is a process and not an overnight, “quick fix”. It takes work from you and your therapist.

5. Well, my session is over, now what?

  • First things first, try to set up your next appointment before you leave the office. Your therapist can do this with you or the receptionist at the front. This can help you to keep up with your appointments and makes it easier not to forget to make your appointments on your own. If you are more comfortable making your own appointments online, or calling in later to make one, that is perfectly okay too!
  • It is normal to feel bad or possibly worse after your first session with your new therapist. It can be a sign of progress. You tend to be expressing a lot of negative emotions and delving deeper into painful memories. Exploring these can be overwhelming. The good news is, this feeling doesn’t last forever! It is just the beginning of your journey to being a healthier version of you.

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